The Van Lifestylist Blog
Stories, tools, and lessons from life on the road — to help you plan, refine, and thrive in van life.
Whether you’re just starting or already roaming the highways, here you’ll find:
🔍 Real lessons from failures and wins
🛠️ Practical tips and tutorials you can apply now
💬 Reflections, mindset support, and stories to inspire
Discovering Your Authentic Self
We all have an ideal version of ourselves that we aspire to be. Maybe you want to be thinner, richer, or more successful. Or, maybe you just want to be happier and more fulfilled. Whatever it is, there's often a disconnect between who we are and who we want to be. This gap is what psychologist Dan McAdams calls "the authentic self." So, what exactly is the authentic self, and why is it important?
Keep reading to find out.
What Is the Authentic Self?
The authentic self is your true identity—who you are at your core. It includes your values, beliefs, and motivations. Importantly, it's also dynamic, which means it can change over time as you grow and evolve. Unfortunately, many of us never take the time to get in touch with our authentic selves. We allow our lives to be controlled by outside forces like our jobs, families, and society. As a result, we end up living inauthentic lives that aren't aligned with our true desires and passions.

